A newsletter for women that want to learn about sex, relationships and love.

Because connection and intimacy don’t just fall into your lap–they take work. And because we’re tired of a cultural narrative that shames women’s pleasure, shames the desire for partnership, and shames real conversation about making love last.

We’re so glad you’re here.


an erotic, healing, and sexy-time newsletter for womxn. Born out of our own struggle to reconnect with sensuality after experiencing trauma, we know that there is nothing shameful about wanting to be our most fulfilled, sexual selves. It's not always easy, but it gets easier when you don't have to find your way alone.

You can expect an email of our favorite ethical pornography to explore your turn on, our favorite resources for healing trauma, plenty of interesting things to think about, and honest stories from our community.

  • Not sure if you’re into erotica? Feeling freaked out? This space is for you if you want to explore, or if you just want to read, learn, and grow.

  • Dealing with some buried trauma? Not sure what you're dealing with? We've been there, and we've got your back.

  • Fully immersed in a sex-positive lifestyle, and want to connect + support others in the space? Heck yeah! Let's change the world!

What we stand for…

Wayward is for all women ages 18+ (trans, cis, non-binary, genderqueer and everything in between).

We are committed to having tough conversations around sexual expression, and respect everyone’s right to the diversity of their desire–what’s thrilling to one person may be unappealing to someone else.